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God
gave us instincts. In answer to violence – by instinct – is the same
thing, namely violence, too. And often times we encounter violence,
built by indifference, ignorance, or misunderstanding. Often, when each
party will develop a better understanding of other parties, we will
have no reason to be angry.
When we are faced with violence, we should take the time to explain – a sincere, clear and patient – without a sense of cynicism and anger as well. Put ourselves in the position of others. Search the ways of thinking and their perspective. And do not bury anger with a vengeance
How we react to violence depends on ourselves. We can fight hard – until no one wins. Until all the anger that they pour sorry. Or you can give meaning – so you also get the meaning.
Understanding anger cools. Understanding opens the way for agreement and cooperation. Yes. Indeed there are people who just want to be mad, no matter what.
But there is also an actual request to be understood.
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Friend, the fire will never be cold with fire anyway
The heat of the sun will not cool with the sun anyway
The severity of the stone will be equally devastated if it collided with a rock too
but
will stop the flames with water
the heat of the sun will warm up if the clouds and wind
and hard rock can be melted by splashing water.
So, Be smart in choosing the attitude in this life
Notes: This advice is for my personal self
who are learning to control anger
People who are strong are the people who choose to seek common ground and find out.
A strong person is one who can control the anger
In an authentic hint of the Messenger of Allah said: “It is not said to be a strong person with wrestling, but the people are strong in holding himself from the angry”.
Examples of anger that is poured is a fight. Create a fun fight, whether it is a battle between groups, inter-gang fighting, the battle between the students, the battle between village and village. Shame on you .. It proves if you are not yet ripe.
Read more: http://authspot.com/poetry/violence-or-try-to-understand/#ixzz1FGBJQHbo
When we are faced with violence, we should take the time to
explain – a sincere, clear and patient
– without a sense of cynicism and anger as well. Put ourselves in the
position of others. Search the ways of thinking and their perspective.
And do not bury anger with a
vengeance.
When we are faced with violence, we should take the time to explain – a sincere, clear and patient – without a sense of cynicism and anger as well. Put ourselves in the position of others. Search the ways of thinking and their perspective. And do not bury anger with a vengeance
How we react to violence depends on ourselves. We can fight hard – until no one wins. Until all the anger that they pour sorry. Or you can give meaning – so you also get the meaning.
Understanding anger cools. Understanding opens the way for agreement and cooperation. Yes. Indeed there are people who just want to be mad, no matter what.
But there is also an actual request to be understood.
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Friend, the fire will never be cold with fire anyway
The heat of the sun will not cool with the sun anyway
The severity of the stone will be equally devastated if it collided with a rock too
but
will stop the flames with water
the heat of the sun will warm up if the clouds and wind
and hard rock can be melted by splashing water.
So, Be smart in choosing the attitude in this life
Notes: This advice is for my personal self
who are learning to control anger
People who are strong are the people who choose to seek common ground and find out.
A strong person is one who can control the anger
In an authentic hint of the Messenger of Allah said: “It is not said to be a strong person with wrestling, but the people are strong in holding himself from the angry”.
Examples of anger that is poured is a fight. Create a fun fight, whether it is a battle between groups, inter-gang fighting, the battle between the students, the battle between village and village. Shame on you .. It proves if you are not yet ripe.
Read more: http://authspot.com/poetry/violence-or-try-to-understand/#ixzz1FGBJQHbo
